For those of you that have been blogging for a long while, those of us that have been blogging just a couple years now and for those of you that are newbies in the blogging scene.....what do you think of your followers? How do you feel about them? Do you let them know? How do you treat them if they comment?
I have been thinking about this a lot lately as, when I started my blog, I got caught up in the 'gotta have lotsa followers' mentality and ran out to visit every blog hop I could find. I followed lotsa folks who then quickly followed me back as that is blog etiquestte. Or I did a follow back on those folks that chose to follow me, again as I wanted to follow the rules. I learned pretty quickly that we were all trying to do the same thing - up the number of followers.
Why did / do we do that? Why were we looking for the followers?
- Was it to have a boatload of followers so we 'looked' like a great blog that loads of folks followed so we must have a great blog and make others want to join?
- Was it to up our numbers for some tallying system out there so that, again, we would look like a big time sought after blog?
- Was it to meet new folks? To meet folks with like interests and desires?
I am not sure what your motivation was but I originally wanted to get the numbers with the hopes of someday making money blogging. In doing that, my heart probably wasn't in the right place.
Once I started following others, there were a lot of blogs I never visited again. There were ones I found that I didn't really like once I DID start following and reading their blogs. But what to do? What to do?
I didn't want to unfollow anyone cuz they may figure it out and unfollow me. OH NO!!!
Well, life has thrown me quite a few curves over the last couple of years and my thoughts on blogging have changed. YES I still LOVE my followers and hope they check in often to see what is going on in my life. YES I still want to check in on my followers and my other fave blogs to see what they are up to. YES I still have another blog,
Creative Concept Events, that I hope helps launch my business and makes me a little money while doing things I love. YES I still plan to check in with my favorite blogs as well as a few I haven't visited in a while.
I DO plan to continue to answer comments I receive with an email (if one is available....please please please consider letting your email be visible) or with a visit back to the the commenters blog. I always visit the blogs of commenters on TOP of replying to their comment by email cuz I love catching up with all of you.
I know by my daily stats that there are a lot of folks out there that stop by and don't leave comments. I LOVE YOU TOO!!!! So keep on visiting and keep on commenting. I am just happy you took time out of your day to stop by.
So what is my point in all this? Well, I am hitting the old 'manage' button on Blogger and cleaning up some of the blogs I never visit by removing them from my blog list and 'unfollowing'. I know it sounds mean but I have such a hard time scrolling around to find the blogs I DO love and I hesitate on adding any new blogs to the list because I am afraid they will get lost in the jumble of the WAY too many blogs I follow. This clean up will allow me to visit my friends and the blogs I adore more often and in a more joyful way.
Will I still be visiting blog hops? You betcha. Will I still be adding new friends to my blogging time? You know it. I just plan on making my blogging more focused.
I hope all of you continue following me on this journey of recovery, of renewal and of creativity. I appreciate each and every one of you and know some of you have been with me since the beginning of A Creative Spirit and you have a special place in my heart. Let's keep on creating and sharing our lives with each other.
Until next time.....